Mother’s Day Special

🌸 Mother’s Day Special: Give Her the Gift of Real Relief

Mother’s Day is coming up, and if you’re like most people, you want to give something meaningful—not just another item that ends up on a shelf.

This year, give her something she’ll actually feel.

💆‍♀️ Mother’s Day Special

For a limited time, I’m offering:

✨ One-hour massage for $65 ✨

(Regularly $75)


🗓️ How it works

  • The session must be booked before Mother’s Day
  • The appointment itself can be scheduled any time after Mother’s Day
  • This allows flexibility while still taking advantage of the special

👉 In other words:
Book now, come in when it works best


💚 Why this matters

Most moms are:

  • carrying stress in their shoulders and neck
  • running on empty
  • taking care of everyone else

Massage isn’t just a luxury—it’s a way to help the body reset and release what it’s been holding onto.

This is especially important if she:

  • struggles to relax
  • deals with chronic tension
  • feels like her body never fully unwinds

🎶 What makes this different

At Therapy by Alice, sessions are not one-size-fits-all.

I work with:

  • the body
  • the nervous system
  • and, when appropriate, music therapy elements

The goal isn’t just temporary relaxation—it’s helping the body let go of deeper patterns of tension.


🎁 Perfect for:

  • Mothers
  • Wives
  • Daughters
  • Grandmothers
  • Or any woman who could use a moment to breathe and reset

You can also book this as a gift—just schedule the session under her name or reach out and I can help you set that up.


📍 Location

Therapy by Alice
Gatesville, TX


📲 Book now

Spots are limited, and once Mother’s Day passes, this special is gone.

👉 Book your session today and secure the $65 rate


If you’ve been thinking about trying a session—or want to give a gift that truly helps—this is a great time to do it.


Book now

For Veterans: Why Chronic Pain Often Doesn’t Respond to Standard Care

Many veterans I work with have tried everything:

  • physical therapy
  • chiropractic care
  • medications
  • massage

And yet, the pain remains.

Often, this is because the issue isn’t just structural.

It’s tied to how the nervous system has adapted over time.

You may notice:

  • your body stays tense even when you’re not in pain
  • certain areas never fully release
  • sleep and recovery are affected

This is where a different approach is needed.

My work focuses on:

  • helping the body release long-held patterns
  • working with the system, not against it
  • creating changes that hold longer over time

If standard care hasn’t worked, it doesn’t mean nothing will.

It just means the approach may need to change.

If you are a veteran in the Fort Hood community and have community care benefits please talk to your provider about seeing if you qualify for massage therapy. I am a provider for Tri-West community care and you may qualify for massage therapy free of charge.

What I Actually Do—and Why It’s Different

There are a lot of ways to describe what I do.

I could say:

  • massage therapy
  • music therapy
  • stress relief

And all of that would be technically true.

But it wouldn’t be accurate.


This Isn’t About Relaxation

Most people who come to me have already tried the usual approaches.

They’ve had:

  • massages that helped… for a day or two
  • treatments that addressed the structure, but not the pattern
  • advice to “just relax,” even when their body clearly won’t

If that’s been your experience, you’re not doing anything wrong.

Your body may still be holding something your system hasn’t been able to release.


What I Actually Do

I work with people whose bodies are carrying long-term tension patterns—especially when those patterns are tied to the nervous system.

That often looks like:

  • chronic upper back and neck pain
  • tension that keeps coming back no matter what you do
  • a system that won’t “turn off,” even when you want it to

My work combines:

  • targeted, problem-solving bodywork
  • music-based regulation techniques
  • careful observation of how your body responds and adapts

This isn’t about chasing symptoms.
It’s about helping your system shift.


Why This Approach Works (and why it’s different)

Seth Godin talks about something called being “remarkable” in his book Purple Cow.

It doesn’t mean flashy.
It means worth noticing because it’s different in a meaningful way.

In a field full of:

  • relaxation massage
  • general stress relief
  • one-size-fits-all approaches

what I do is more specific.

I’m not trying to be everything to everyone.


The Right Fit Matters

In This Is Marketing, there’s a core idea:

The goal is not to reach everyone. It’s to help the right people.

So here’s who this work is actually for:

  • Veterans dealing with chronic pain and tension
  • People whose symptoms haven’t improved with standard care
  • Individuals who feel like their body is “stuck” in patterns they can’t change

And just as importantly, here’s who it’s not for:

  • someone looking for a simple relaxation massage
  • someone who wants a quick, temporary fix

What You Can Expect

This work is a process.

During a session, we’re not just trying to make you feel better for an hour.
We’re working toward helping your body respond differently over time.

You may notice:

  • areas that don’t respond the way you expect at first
  • patterns that start to shift gradually
  • changes that hold longer between sessions

That’s the goal.


Why I Talk About This Openly

Another idea from Permission Marketing is that people should understand what you do before they ever walk in the door.

Not through pressure.
Through clarity.

When you know:

  • how I work
  • what I focus on
  • and whether it fits what you need

you can make a decision that actually serves you.


The Bottom Line

I don’t just offer sessions.

I help people work through what their body and nervous system are holding—so that change isn’t temporary.

If that’s what you’ve been looking for, this may be the right place to start.

Music Therapy for Children and Adults with Special Needs: Meeting the Nervous System Where It Is

Music therapy is already a part of my daily work with children and adults who have a wide range of physical, cognitive, and developmental challenges.

This is not a one-size-fits-all approach.

It is highly individualized work that meets each person exactly where they are—especially when traditional methods don’t fully connect.


What I See in Sessions

Many of the individuals I work with have difficulty with one or more of the following:

  • Communication
  • Emotional regulation
  • Sensory processing
  • Motor coordination
  • Attention and focus

In many cases, they are already working very hard just to function in a world that doesn’t always match how their nervous system operates.

Music therapy gives them a different entry point.

Instead of asking them to adapt first, we use music to meet their system—and then gently build from there.


Why Music Therapy Works So Well in Special Needs Populations

Music engages multiple areas of the brain at the same time.

It connects:

  • Movement
  • Emotion
  • Memory
  • Attention
  • Sensory input

That combination makes it especially effective for individuals who struggle with traditional learning or communication methods.

For example:

  • A child who is nonverbal may still be able to sing or vocalize
  • A person with limited attention may stay engaged through rhythm
  • Someone with motor challenges may respond more easily to beat-based movement

Music creates structure without pressure.


How I Work with Children and Adults

Sessions are built around what each individual can do—not what they can’t.

We might use:

  • Rhythm exercises to support coordination and focus
  • Singing to encourage communication and breath control
  • Instrument play to develop motor skills
  • Repetition and structure to create predictability and safety

The goal is not performance.

The goal is function, regulation, and connection.


Supporting Children in Special Education

Music therapy can be especially helpful for children involved in special education services.

It can support goals such as:

  • Improving communication (verbal or nonverbal)
  • Increasing attention and task completion
  • Supporting emotional regulation in the classroom
  • Developing social interaction skills
  • Strengthening motor planning and coordination

Because music is engaging and predictable, it often helps children participate more fully than they would in a traditional setting.

It can also be adapted to align with IEP goals and classroom needs.


What Makes This Approach Different

A lot of therapy models focus on correcting behavior from the outside.

My approach focuses on what the nervous system is doing underneath.

When the system is overwhelmed, distracted, or shut down, pushing harder doesn’t help.

But when the nervous system is supported and regulated:

  • Attention improves
  • Communication becomes easier
  • Behavior becomes more organized

Music gives us a direct way to create those changes.


Real-World Impact

Over time, this work can lead to:

  • Increased engagement
  • Better emotional control
  • Improved ability to follow directions
  • Greater confidence in communication
  • More consistent participation in daily activities

These changes don’t come from forcing skills.

They come from building a system that can support those skills.


The Bottom Line

Music therapy creates a bridge.

It connects where someone is now to where they have the potential to go—without forcing them into a method that doesn’t fit.

Whether working with children in special education or adults with developmental or physical challenges, the goal is the same:

Help the body and nervous system organize, regulate, and function more effectively.

That’s where real progress starts.

Music Therapy: Helping You Work Through What Your Body and Nervous System Are Holding

Most people think music therapy is about relaxing music or background sound.

It’s not.

Music therapy is a way to work directly with what your body and nervous system are holding—especially the things that don’t come out easily in words.


What Music Therapy Actually Is

Music therapy is a clinical, evidence-based approach that uses music intentionally to support the body, the mind, and the nervous system.

You don’t need to be musical.
You don’t need experience.
You don’t need to “perform.”

You just need a starting point.

Sessions are built around what your system needs that day, using things like:

  • Rhythm to regulate and ground
  • Voice to release and express
  • Familiar songs to access memory and emotion
  • Simple instruments to engage the body

This is not passive listening.

This is targeted, responsive work.


Why Music Works When Other Things Don’t

There are times when talking doesn’t get to the root of the problem.

That’s because a lot of what we carry isn’t stored in words—it’s stored in the body.

Music bypasses the part of the brain that tries to explain everything and goes straight to the nervous system.

  • Rhythm can steady breathing and heart rate
  • Repetition can create a sense of safety
  • Melody can shift emotional state
  • Vibration can be felt physically, not just heard

It gives your system a way to process without forcing it.


What It Helps With

Music therapy is especially effective when something feels stuck, overwhelming, or hard to access.

It can help with:

Nervous system overload

  • Chronic stress
  • Anxiety
  • Feeling constantly “on edge”

Emotional backlog

  • Grief
  • Trauma
  • Life transitions

Physical tension and pain

  • Chronic tightness
  • Pain patterns that don’t fully resolve

Cognitive and neurological challenges

  • Brain injury
  • Memory issues
  • Focus and processing

Disconnection

  • Feeling numb
  • Feeling shut down
  • Not being able to put things into words

Who This Is For

This work is especially useful for people who:

  • Feel like their body is holding more than they can explain
  • Have tried talking and still feel stuck
  • Want a more direct way to regulate their system
  • Need something practical, not abstract

It’s also highly effective for:

  • Veterans working through trauma and nervous system dysregulation
  • Individuals dealing with chronic stress or pain
  • Anyone who needs a different entry point than conversation alone

What a Session Looks Like

Sessions are structured, but flexible.

A typical session includes:

  • A quick check-in (what your body is doing, not just what you think)
  • Targeted music work based on that
  • Noticing what shifts—physically and emotionally
  • Ending in a more regulated, grounded state

There’s no pressure to do anything “right.”

The focus is on what your system does—not how it looks.


Why Combine Music Therapy with Bodywork

This is where things start to connect.

Music therapy works through the nervous system.
Bodywork works through the tissues.

When you combine them:

  • Music helps the system open
  • Bodywork helps the body release
  • The nervous system learns a new pattern

Instead of just managing symptoms, you start changing how your system responds.


The Bottom Line

Music therapy is not about entertainment.

It’s about giving your body a way to process, regulate, and shift—especially in the places where words fall short.

If you feel like your system is carrying more than it should, this work is designed to help you move through it.

If your back hurts it’s your butt’s fault

Sadly we lost Erik just over a year ago, but I’m so grateful his work lives on. I love this techniques. Come see me in Gatesville and I will work on you. I’m next to the High School, on Lovers Lane

Small plug for a friend

One of my friends is putting on her first NATRC competition in Glen Rose, TX which is kind of the dinosaur capital of Texas. Since putting on a competition is expensive she has proactively made up a t-shirt to sell as a fund raiser. Even if you can’t make the ride, aren’t interested in horses or can’t make it to Texas take a minute to look at the short link. They are super cute and they can be shipped right to you.

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To make this massage related I am up and running in the new office at 105B South Lovers Lane, Gatesville, TX 76528. Below is the link to book a massage online or text or call me at (817) 456-3048

One thing I do at Therapy by Alice is work with veterans in the community care program. You can get a referral from the community care network and your provider if you qualify.

I also work with children and adults in music therapy. I’ll do a more comprehensive post about music therapy in another post